Let’s Talk About The L Word

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I bet this is your expression right now. šŸ˜›

Love is selfless?
Well, I think love doesn’t need to be selfless. You should be able to take decisions that benefit you, and the person who loves you should be okay with you doing that. And vice versa, of course.

Love is blind?
Nope, I think love has better eyesight than our eyes can ever give us. The eyesight is the soul. If the soul sees that someone is perfect, he is perfect. Thus, you don’t love without seeing.

Love knows no bounds?
Well I think it should know some bounds. Because after crossing a limit, love can get dangerous. Giving eachother some space is love. Knowing ‘when’ that space needs to be given is love.

These are my opinions, many of you may disagree. But I don’t want to debate because everyone has different views based on their past experiences.Ā 

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20 Comments Add yours

  1. The V-Pub says:

    I think that it’s fair to say that love is different things to different people, and we only know it when we’re in it. šŸ™‚

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    1. shubhada says:

      Yes! We all are ‘in’ it, right? Some are in love with their boyfriends or girlfriends while some are in love with their parents or friends. Is it the same kind of love, though? I don’t know.

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  2. hbhatnagar says:

    It would be a good thing to remove the comments section from this post if you want to avoid debate! šŸ˜€

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    1. shubhada says:

      No, I do want to know your views! šŸ™‚
      I just don’t want to argue or disagree. But I can’t disable the comments. I would die wondering about your views if I did that.

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      1. hbhatnagar says:

        Oh no, I mostly agree with you, maybe from an even more skeptical viewpoint, That was just an observation. šŸ™‚

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      2. shubhada says:

        Thanks for suggesting! šŸ™‚

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  3. markbialczak says:

    Every instance of love you ever are lucky enough to experience in your life will be different, Shooby Doo. Parents love each of their children differently. Children love their mother and father differently. You and I will love every friend we come across in life in a different shade of the word. And romantically, yes, the heart will pound out of your chest when a certain one comes along in a way like no other. Have a good day, inquisitive one. ā¤

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    1. shubhada says:

      Oh, PM!!! You certainly do have a way with words. ā¤ā¤ā¤ā¤

      Is the romantic kind of love really as good as it is described in novels and movies? šŸ˜€
      I have never experienced it, but I can’t wait to experience something so exciting!

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      1. markbialczak says:

        It’s better than that, Shooby Doo. Your first romantic love interest will be the only thing you’ll be able to think about for … a year, or more, if you’re lucky and they’re really good. šŸ˜‰

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      2. shubhada says:

        Wow. šŸ™‚
        Can’t wait to feel something as intense as that!!!

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  4. NJ says:

    I totally agree with all of your points šŸ™‚

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    1. shubhada says:

      You do? I’m glad! šŸ˜€

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      1. NJ says:

        Yes šŸ™‚

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  5. Hey,Ada!*waves excitedly*
    I have nominated you for the future challenge. Go visit Wanderingviolet for the details. I am a lazy bum.:P
    And you’re free to accept or reject. šŸ˜› Lol
    No hard feelings! *winks*

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    1. shubhada says:

      Hi A!! Um, this is kinda awkward, but I’m not going to do any awards from now because it’s too… Tedious. Sorry! But you should know I really liked it that you found me worth nominating!! Thank you, A/Vi! šŸ˜›

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      1. Hahaha no worries,Ada. I mentioned it there and then. No compulsions. Actually, I was thinking of going off the awards/nominations posts myself. I had 8 pending posts. Can you believe how lazy I was being?! It gets hard after sometime. And then it feels like a burden.*sighs*
        Sooooo,no worries.:D
        By the way,where are you nowadays,girl?You are off WP,or something? :/
        Don’t see you much now.:|

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      2. shubhada says:

        Hahaha yeah! Lol, sorry for responding so late!! I actually AM off WP. šŸ˜¦
        I don’t know.. I don’t find the motivation to write or to read. I’m so sorry. About not reading your posts, I mean. It’s just.. Gahh, I don’t know! This slow wordpress app isn’t helping the situation. Also, I’ve had exams this week! Soooo have been busy..

        Sorry Vi!! šŸ˜¦

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      3. No worries. šŸ™‚
        I am kinda thinking of going off WP, too.Atleast, for sometime.Similar reasons, actually. Not feeling like writing much nowadays, either. It’s been that way since I went AWOL for those 10 days after Kolkata visit. Haven’t been the same since. No idea,why. Even if I write,it’s crappy,or unsatisfying to me. And generally isn’t from the “heart”. Except my last post. šŸ™‚
        Anyway,let’s see how long I can continue. I might press the log out this night,or not for months.*sighs* I dunno.
        P.S. I actually wrote something about a Sheldon lady. You’re gonna be damn shocked when you get to know who it is about. But since you’re the one because of who I wrote that,you NEED to check it out. And don’t worry. If it sucks,tell it to my face. Don’t hesitate even for a breath,you get it?*STARES her down*
        It has #SL in the beginning of the title. šŸ˜›
        Don’t ask me what that is. You’ll know soon enough. *Snorts*

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      4. shubhada says:

        Oooooohhhhh. And I’m reading this now. -_-
        Okay, without wasting time, let me open your bloggg!!!

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      5. Hahhahahahaha go ahead.:D

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