People leave. You think they’ll be there forever and ever, but they’ll leave. Atleast that is what is happening in my life. And you break from inside, alright? You break. You’re shattered. You’re a mess.
But still, you’ll be foolish enough to believe that the next person in your life is there to stay. You’re a fool. Um. Haha, not you. I’m talking about me. I’m a fool. I’m stupid. I ruin everything. I can’t do anything right. Maybe that’s why people leave. Or maybe it’s not meant to be like that, you know? Some people aren’t meant to be together. Man it hurts so much.
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And to look at it another way… maybe you deserve better and the people who left were not worth it?
I am sorry you feel this way now. But tomorrow will be a better day. This year will be better, for sure. Take care, you…
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Thank you Tejaswi. This year didn’t start on a very good note. But I really hope it gets better..
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It will, trust me.. this is going to be the best year for you yet… just a gut feeling 🙂
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Ohh thank you so muchhhh Tejaswi!! ❤❤❤
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I’m sorry that you’re going through such pain, Shubhada. No matter how badly that you feel today, remember tomorrow holds the promise of meeting someone perfect for you.
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I don’t know whether I have any more energy left to invest in that “another perfect person”.
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I felt that way many times, but I always return. Here’s a little joke that explains it best (from Woody Allen): “It reminds me of that old joke- you know, a guy walks into a psychiatrist’s office and says, hey doc, my brother’s crazy! He thinks he’s a chicken. Then the doc says, why don’t you turn him in? Then the guy says, I would but I need the eggs. I guess that’s how I feel about relationships. They’re totally crazy, irrational, and absurd, but we keep going through it because we need the eggs.”
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Yeah. Yeah man. This makes so much sense! Thank you, Rob! You’re TOO good! 🙂
I sometimes feel so lucky that I’ve got people like you to stabilise my emotions. What good have I done to deserve such awesome people like you?
We need the eggs. I’ll keep that in mind. 🙂
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It all depends on the choices you make and the interactions you have. The affinity that you exhibit isn’t reflected by the person on the other side, may be it is time you start taking some priority on your reflections and see it to it that things don’t turn so messy all the time. Before dwelling into any kind of serious emotions from your end, may be it is good to take some time to see how things go on, I have this 45 day and 60 day cycle. Within this stipulated time, you will know everything and anything you are supposed to know about a person, his/her emotions and the behavior pattern 😉
Meanwhile all the disruptions and distortions, enable you into a person you are and whom you are going to meet, who will fill all the wounds and void you are gathering along the way to meet that person 😉 (* Just a thought)
Secondly you are good on your own. You are this kind of person. That means you should rejoice it, however hard it hurts, just go with it. You know you are being you so that’s a bliss.
And about your comments to invest your energy for that perfect person, when the time is right, when the moment comes, everything will happen on its own, you don’t have to put any efforts. Just be cheerful. Preserve yourself, loosing it, will leave you doomed and result into the negative world that you are imagining will happen.
Until that magic happens, I am back so post whatever you feel and I will be happy to share my inputs. Following this comment is a small post. Check it out.
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Thanks Bhanu! I really appreciate that you’ve put so much effort and thoughts into posting this comment! And yeah, maybe when the time comes I don’t need to have the “energy”. It’ll just come naturally.
Will surely check out your post.
Thanks again. 🙂
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Sure. No problem.
https://way2heart.wordpress.com/2016/01/05/mathematical-connotation-of-bipolar-love/
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One more – Please share your thoughts on the post !
https://way2heart.wordpress.com/2016/01/05/point-blank-proposal/
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Sure thing!
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Sorry to hear you are hurting. I know the feeling. Even when someone is present, you can miss them temporarily so much that it hurts. It took me a long time to realize life is a series of losses and gains. It doesn’t take the pain away, nor does it make the moments stand still in time. But it does help me to appreciate each moment while giving the best of me, without surrendering my values. Praying you can find peace, and grow through the pain without closing off to others and the expression of love. Trust me I know how you feel. Wishing you a reflective, restorative, comforting, and supportive day.
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I really hope I don’t close off to others. Because that’s something that I might do, considering my paranoid tendencies. But like Bhanu (the third person who commented) said, when the time comes, I’ll maybe naturally open up to someone again.
Thank you so much Virgo beauty. Wishing you, too, a good day and a great, productive year. 🙂
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Thank you for the warm wishes for today. And yes, it’ll come naturally. Love is too great to contain and it’s all around us. I just sent a big blast of love your way. Take today a moment at a time 🙂
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Oh thank you so much!! *trying to absorb all that love* ❤
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Ada? What’s wrong, girl? You sound so down. And you are blaming yourself for everything? Don’t. Just…don’t. They are jerks,everybody out there who’s responsible,you know. Let them go to hell. And don’t blame yourself,ya. Don’t. You are awesome, you know that?!💚
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Haha, “they” aren’t jerks Vi. Nobody has wronged me. Or betrayed me. Or anything like that. It’s different.. It’s about a failing at friendship. ‘Who’ has failed, that can’t be said. Maybe I have, maybe she has or maybe none of us have. Like I said maybe, just maybe, some things are meant to end.. And the worst part is, it doesn’t feel like the end. It doesn’t feel like falling off a bridge. It feels like hanging onto a falling bridge. Falling off a bridge would have been way easier.. I don’t know how else to explain this feeling..
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Oh. Okay. I must have misunderstood. The result’s gonna come. I am freaking out.🙈
And, honestly, that sounds like the “It’s complicated” status from FB. Shiz! Bad joke. Ignore.😶
Anyway,whatever’s meant to be,will be. If she’s supposed to be a friend,everything will sort itself out. And if she’s not supposed to be? That’s a different matter,then. But it’s all gonna be simplified. Just give it time,maybe?:/
And don’t lose the grip. Keep holding on. That’s what it’s all about. I wrote something about holding on or something. Or maybe it was something else. I dunno. -.-
But anyway, the point is,you gotta keep holding on. Just…don’t let go. Have faith. And hope. In your friendship,and in each other. 🙂
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What if we both have almost no hope? Gah, fuck it. I’m tired of thinking, honestly. And friendship heartbreaks are worse than boyfriend heartbreaks. I’d read it somewhere. Now I know it’s true. It’s breaking me. But I’ll be okay. I know that. Time will heal all wounds. Maybe.
And maybe that’s why not having a ‘bestfriend/soulmate’ is a good thing.
Anyway, all the best for your results, A! I’ll keep switching from Vi to A! 😛
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That,girl, is definitely a possibility. But if you want her back,you gotta think otherwise. Because,as I said, it’s all about hope. If you believe you can work through it,you definitely can. But if you lose all hope,your friendship is done for. So.
Yes,if ya’ll aren’t meant to be,as to say, time will definitely heal the wounds. It will,trust me. It heals it all.:)
And, I shouldn’t say this right now, but, in my opinion, it’s definitely true. 🙂
Thank you so much, Ada.:* I definitely need it. I dunno if I will even pass or not.*sobs*
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Oh common, you definitely will pass!! You’re too smart, dude. 😘 And all your posts only prove the fact.
The fact is I don’t know what I’m feeling. So WHAT-E-VER.
And thanks Vi. For being there.
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Oh if you had any idea. I used to be smart. Back in school when being a topper wasn’t so out of this world. Now? It’s definitely dodgy. I seriously dunno.🙈 I have no idea what I did to deserve this treatment from Eco hons. It’s so not my thing, I have come to realise. But too late,ya. So.
Anyway,as I said before, hope! So,I am gonna do that,too.
Just give it time.:)
Aw. You are going all mushy on me now?:P
Jk
I know it sounds like such a cliché,but I am definitely here. And so are other WP people who just adore you. So,don’t you worry. Just run to us whenever you need to ramble, babble, talk or rant.*insert a winning smile*
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You guys are the best!! 😘😘
And trust me you’ll shine bright in the field that’s actually of your interest! And you’ll get there!
Lots of love from here. 😘
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Yeah, it hurts when someone leaves out your life, i my case i don’t have any friends, however i do have enemies, i too feel it when they leave!
So in keeping with the topic, ifinn you do make friend status,
it is extremely pain ful of the loss, nonetheless, we all have a path in life..
i look at it this way, your path has crossed mine,
what we take from each other, may it improve our lifestyles or outlook upon life..
hugs always chris
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i got so sidetracked
within your post,
as to the reason i dropped by…..
i see that you stopped in, to have a read,
i thank you!
With that i’ll leave you
with a wink, a blink and a kiss
hugs again chris
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Thank you Chris! I appreciate it!
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Thank you Chris! I appreciate it! 🙂
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give up the illusion of control over your life and people and world will be lot more beautiful. People change, some leave, some stay, some make us happy, some make us cry, some we just chill with, it depends on our situation and our emotional response to that situation. There’s always a reason behind somethings that happen. Even if its simple thing like people leaving you for selfish reasons or anything that you can not forgive or let go right now. You will learn in time.
give time some time. trust yourself and others.
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Yeah.. You’re right. Change is the way of life. 🙂
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They leave & act like it never happened. They come back & act like they never left.
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So true!
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