If you had to help someone who’s VERY selfish – someone who even helps people so that she’ll get something in return, in future – would you?
I’m guessing you wouldn’t. But what if that person pestered you every single day to help her?
Okay I’m going to make it simpler now. This girl A, she couldn’t attend college for a month. And now she’s asking me to give her my notes for the whole month. I don’t have a problem with helping someone. I love helping people. But I do have a problem with helping a selfish person. Also, I have a doubt that she’s just using me. So I’m thinking I’m not going to help her.
Do you think I’m doing the right thing?
Or do you think I should just help her to stop that guilty feeling from creeping into my mind? Should I just help her and get done with it? Because she was a friend some time ago, and we’ve had our ‘good memories’. Kind of. Only, now she’s not. But still, how can I tell her “NO, I won’t help you because I don’t like you very much.”? Can I? More importantly, Should I?