Hi people. I feel the the kind of awkward feeling you get when you suddenly lose contact with a very good friend and now you’re finally meeting them and you don’t know how to start a conversation.
The reason I’ve been away from blogging isn’t important (read: I don’t have any reasonable explanation, except that – I’ve been procrastinating to respond on the award nominations, and that led me to not posting even a normal post. Like I said, not important.) – but why I’m here today is.
I’m here to warn you, people.
Don’t ever, ever, ever depend on someone or count on someone completely. People don’t come through, you think they will, but many times they won’t. And that’ll hurt you.
Heard of the phrase “Never put all your eggs in one basket”?
Yes, that’s what I’m trying to say here. Never have one ‘best’ friend, because when they fail you, or when you fail them – you’re left with absolutely nothing. Your journey that started with so many happy, cuddly, warm feelings comes to a screeching halt and you’re pushed away and told to start your own journey – alone. And that hurts like hell.
Hmm, guess that’s it. Please don’t ask me what all this is about. It’s hard to explain. But I promise you I’m not finding it hard to deal with. I’ve accepted some facts. And with acceptance comes a lot of maturity; with maturity comes a lot of acceptance.
Okay I’ll shut up now. I’ll respond to all your nominations very very soon, I’m SO sorry for the delay.