Good evening guys.
I’m facing a dilemma today. And I’m sharing this with you because
1. You guys don’t judge.
2. You really care.
So my bestfriend has this thing – she loves this girl (let’s call her X) sometimes and then all of a sudden starts HATING her (for some of her rude comments, her sarcastic remarks, etc.)
Now I find this girl X completely OKAY. You know? Not good, not bad. And when my bestfriend says something good about her I start thinking she’s a nice girl. But the next day she comes and tells me how BITCHY ‘X’ is. And my opinion automatically changes.
What is happening here is, I’m not able to think for myself. My thoughts are clouded by my bestie’s opinion of her.
The thing is – this girl IS sometimes rude to my bestfriend (either in a friendly way or in a really bitchy way). You see, my bestfriend herself sometimes admits that she could be interpreting X’s gestures in a wrong way. But she admits this ONLY when X is good to her. Typical.
But WHAT DO I DO ABOUT THIS?! X has been there for me when I needed somebody desperately! She’s always sweet to me! Always! And there was a time when I loved her.
Do I hate her or love her?! Just because my bestfriend can’t decide what she feels about her, does that mean I’ll always face the dilemma too?! Why can’t I like her, because she’s good to me?!! I know why. Because X sometimes isn’t good to my bestfriend, and she expects me to hate her, too.
My bestfriend and I have had LOTS of fights about this, by the way!!
If you’ve successfully reached the end of this post, you might as well tell me what I should do next!!
I’m STUCK here!